Start with Yes…

A few weeks ago, I blogged about the postcards I received for Love Notes 21, Prompt 1, “Start with…” At the time I did not share the card I designed in response to the prompt because they were en route to the recipients and I didn’t want to “spoil” their fun by posting here.  But here it is…

I captured the train tracks while waiting for my hubby and son to finish up at a pet shop that also sells and exhibits art. Cool, right? The photo served as a perfect image for my response to the prompt:

Start with…yes. The road ahead awaits your consent.

We get so many messages telling us how to say “no”–messages that remind us that we shouldn’t let others take advantage of our generosity or take more than we’re willing to give of our time and resources. The problem is that “no” is such a powerful word that it seeps into our consciousness and into our language even when we don’t want it to, especially when we talk to ourselves. “No” spearheads all the negative self-talk at the root of our unplanted dreams. It convinces us that we’re not prepared enough, not smart enough, not beautiful enough, not articulate enough to do one thing or another. We’ve trained ourselves so well in the art of no that we say “no” to everything…even to things that are healthy and beneficial for us.

So my message…”start with  yes,” is about changing the internal dialogue. It’s about dismissing all the reasons why we shouldn’t and embracing the reasons why we should and all the what ifs in a way that exposes the benefits and not the drawbacks of the word “yes.” Clinging to “no” means we’re stuck in this one place. Never venturing. Never gaining and never reaching what is waiting for us just beyond “yes” and further down the road.

I encourage you to start with yes…and participate as a whole new world unfolds before you.

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  1. Beautiful concept. I love the postcard.

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  2. LaVerta Lundy

     /  November 28, 2017

    Yes!!! Thanks for the reminder😊👍🏼

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  3. I agree, and it includes: “Yes, I don’t want to”, by which I mean acknowledging my boundaries (instead of finding excuses to ignore them).

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  4. Martha Slavin

     /  November 28, 2017

    Thank you, Chandra, for this posting. YES has been a valuable word for me. I’ve used it to encourage myself and others to try new adventures and learn new skills. YES is one of the best ideas to follow.

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  5. Yep, something is in the cup we’re drinking from. On Monday, I finished a screening of Wild Women Don’t have the Blues (Cali Newsreel) and today, I’ll be completing a discussion of Ma Rainey’s Black Bottom.

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