The last several days have been incredibly difficult–five deaths affecting people near and dear to me. It takes its toll. Yesterday, I wanted to blog about something hopeful, but I didn’t have the energy to pull a bit of light out of me. After a fitful night, I woke up and recalled a stack of mail I hadn’t gone through. In that stack was a postcard from my penfriend, Trang K, featuring the tomb of Frédéric Chopin at Le Cimetière du Père Lachaise in Paris. The image is part of the Oases of Silence 2018 collection.
On the postcard, Trang describes her walk “with deep solemnity” through the cemetery. Her words are appropriate for this moment:
Life has no beginning and no end as we each carry the memory of each other through our love and hearts. The sadness at the sight of the graves left me and I was left with the joy of celebration to be in the presence of [Frédéric François] Chopin, [Ferdinand Victor Eugène] Delacroix, Jim Morrison, Oscar Wilde. May [we] celebrate each moment of [our] glorious [lives] knowing [we] are infinite because of love.
Few words comfort in the immediacy of a loved one’s passing. Action takes the lead when words fail: “When you can’t look on the bright side, I will sit with you in the dark” (Alice in Wonderland).
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Sorry to hear that you experience the death of so many beloved ones right now. I send virtual hugs.
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Thanks. Hugs back…
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That’s a beautiful quote. I’ll remember it.
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Indeed. It is…
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Great quote – makes you want to be grateful for all you have everyday https://questforlove.co.uk/2018/07/13/lucky-man/
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Agreed.
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I’m so sorry to hear about your losses, Chandra Lynn. I know it’s very difficult. Sympathy and hugs going out to you.
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Though I know the individuals,, these were not my “personal” losses. They were the losses of friends. I’m hurting for them. Thanks for your kind words and hugs…
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Wonderful words today, and from Trang, is no surprise. Sending prayers, and warm thoughts your way, and to those you know who have lost.
Hugs dear one ;o/
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Thanks, Sheila. Hugs back…
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This quote though: “When you can’t look on the bright side, I will sit with you in the dark.”
💕💕💕💕😘
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Love and grief are different sides of the same coin, the presence of does not diminish the pain and joy of the other. Wishing blessings to you, your words are calming and wise here.
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Interesting that you’d say that. I just read a quote that starts “Grief is really love.”
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Thanks for dropping by and sharing kindness.
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I’m very sorry for your loss, I’m glad these words spoke to you.
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Thank you.
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