Thanks to T.S. Eliot’s “The Wasteland,” many of us are acutely aware “April is the cruelest month.” In fact, I began to panic about April a week ago because an event or line was added to my calendar and to-do list every time I read an email, answered a call, or left my office for a tiny break.
It is difficult for an academic to not encounter the cruelty of April. There is clearly a lot to do as the school year is winding down and we are preparing for board meetings, graduation, and all the other year-end activities.
Busy is not my favorite state of being. Some people thrive on having too much to do or on jumping from one thing into another. “Resting” is my natural state–not as in doing nothing, but as in taking long breaks from the grind and doing the things I want to do, the things that fuel my soul. And it has been far too long since I picked up a paintbrush, cut paper, made cards, quietly listened to music, or read a novel for pure pleasure.
As I fretted over how I would survive next week with zero time to “rest” (let alone April), my hubby reminded me to give it to God, that only He could ease the anxiety, so I did immediately. [Then, I began to write this post]. 🙂
I am determined to take a moment this weekend to plan the month carefully and build in time to breathe and take care of my soul. I figure–and I truly believe–even during the so-called cruelest month, the work always gets done.
My artsy Wildflower sister, Lori-Anne C, created [and sent] the absolutely stunning art that leads this post in celebration of women and friendship [purple tulips and a sunflower!]. She included a beautiful quote, which is both blessing and instruction. I hope that you will heed the words, take care of you, and reclaim April from the cruel grip of busyness.
May you have the courage this month to break patterns in your life that no longer serve you. Give yourself permission during this time to pause and reflect. And always remember, taking care of yourself doesn’t mean “me first.” It means “me too.” —Becoming Unbusy
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Blessings to you, Chandra Lynn for sharing these words. I am grateful for your husband’s wise advice and pray God helps me “build in time to breathe and take care of my soul” this month.
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Happy the words were helpful for you. Praying you will stay the course and take care of your soul. God bless you!
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Blessings my friend. xoxo
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Right back at ya! Hugssss…
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I love the art here… and your post! Thank you so much. I am one of those who likes to be busy all the time. Retirement had forced me into the new discipline of slowing down and taking time.
Blessings!
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Ahhh,,,retirement. The dream. I would have no problem giving some of my busy to you. Say the word and it’s yours! 😀
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April is a crazy time for Academics. Hope you can take time to refresh this month
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I will do my best! Be sure to take care of you too!
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Resting is an underrated skill.
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It is indeed…
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What a beautiful painting and quote—what a thoughtful gift! I hope you are surviving the crazy month and finding time to recharge a bit each day.
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