These words played over and over in my mind as I awakened from my slumber this morning. Today marks four years since we lost Karlette, my younger sister, to breast cancer. And pink orchids were her favorite flowers.
I’ve been fighting with a photo of pink orchids I shot at the New Orleans Botanical Gardens in January. I want it to commemorate her life. I want it to be beautiful. I want it to represent her. I want it to be perfect. It’s far from perfect, but it’s what I have until I get back to New Orleans and capture them again.
I realize my fretting over the orchids has a lot to do with my trying to cope with March 11, a date that gives me anxiety, although I think about my sister every.single.day.
Before her death, Karlette and I had plans to write the stories of her brutal battles with breast cancer and what we’d hoped would be her victory. I have the pictures, but without her voice, I know it will not be the story she wanted told.
Some aspect of her story will be shared eventually, but for now, I’ve decided to honor her memory in another way.
Recently, I had the privilege of writing postcards to breast cancer patients with whom my only acquaintance is that someone they know is in one of the same Facebook groups to which I belong. I prayed and used my sister’s experience to guide me as I wrote. I thought about what she would say and how she would encourage women. It dawned on me that sometimes a small thing such as a postcard or note goes a long way to cheer someone who is struggling with this disease, and honoring Karlette does not require a monumental gesture.
So today, instead of suffering silently this awful loss, I’m reclaiming March 11. Today, I am launching Karle’s Wings, a postcard ministry aimed at sharing with breast cancer sufferers and survivors beauty, light, and joy–characteristics Karlette embodied.
If you or someone you know would benefit from a postcard from Karle’s Wings, please complete the contact form below. The information will remain private and will not be shared with anyone beyond the purpose of addressing a postcard, note, or letter. Within days of receiving the request, you, your family member or friend will receive a handwritten, personalized postcard from Karle’s Wings.
Love and light…